Joy Hicklin-Bailey
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Joyful Loving and Your keys to Awakened Intimacy

How You Make the Love that You are        


What a wonderful privilege it is to work with the Joyful Loving ongoing circles (new training starts Sept  28 2012). One thing which fascinated me was how even in this extraordinarysanctum of consciousness, love and the deepest of intimacy with others and withexistence, so far from intellectual discussion, many expressed how interestedthey were in 7 keys to intimacy I shared in a particular structure. So Ithought I would share them in this forum as it is impossible to share theexquisiteness, the vulnerability, the openings, the profundity, the joy of therest of our shared time together. Do let me know by email or via the blog at http://secretgarden.eu.com/blog howthese concepts touch you!


Please understand thatthis below is all concept.  It is of the mind but it points tosomething beyond words and experience known by the personality, which can nevercreate true intimacy. I reserve the right to change these 7 keys! It is,as all things of the mind are, a changeable thing. It is so inadequate comparedwith the energetic of presence.


How the conscious mindcan want structure and to know something. And the conscious mind often needscoaxing towards the unknown, of course!  


Intimacy cannot beknown, planned or reached for in the way the conscious mind loves to do. Infact those things create a missing of the Most Intimate. That Most Intimatethat is always here, beyond, below, above, around, the mind, yet in no placeand owned by no-one.


Anyway here they are –7 keys to Awakened Intimacy and Joyful Loving.


1. A willingness to bewith one’s own feelings (intimacy with one’s own being) and those of others.


2. Not knowing anything-no plan or agenda or idea about the other or life.


3. Transparent openhonesty, realness in flow.


4. Humour, living alllightly.


5. The truestcommitment you can make in any given situation


6. Worshipping theother as God or Goddess, the only man, the only woman. (This is potentiallycontroversial-I am NOT talking about lifestyle, I’m talking about the postman,anyone we meet in the dream of life – but potentially the most transformativeexperience of this comes with the one or ones we share most with -someone in acircle, family, a beloved spouse or partner.)


7 Presence (withwhat actually is, not what we like to think is or what should be).


None of the above isthe deepest truth. 


Enjoy playing with it. and I wish you a falling into theMost Intimate -which is all that is anyway.


I love you.


Pleaseshare your responses and if you are intrigued by what is possible beyond thewords have a look at  next year’s ongoing training. http://www.secretgarden.eu.com/joyfulloving.html Iwould love to be with you there. You can have the best early booking discount if you read this article –til June 29.

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